Pinned6 Tips on Flirting as a CoupleFlirting in Tandem in the Swinger Lifestyle can be Tricky, but Fun! Whether it’s a lifestyle event, a house party, a social club, or a meet-up with another couple for dinner or drinks—figuring out how to flirt can be daunting to those new to the swinger lifestyle. If you’re anything…Swingers6 min readSwingers6 min read
6 days agoUnexpected Benefits of Attending a Weekend Swingers EventSwingers at a weekend event often get more out of it than sex. — The following was written by one of our community members, and we wanted to share it with you. When you contemplate a weekend away with a group of sexy swingers, you may be thinking of lots of wild and intriguing possibilities. But you’d be surprised how much more you may…Swinger Lifestyle4 min readSwinger Lifestyle4 min read
Apr 10The Suggestion of SexOur Musings on the Power of Subtle Sensuality — Remember when everyone was obsessed with reading Fifty Shades of Grey? In the first book, Mr. Grey gets aroused by Anastasia’s lip-biting because it makes him imagine his own mouth on hers—how it would feel, look, taste—and he becomes aroused at the idea of biting that lip, himself. Her lip…Sex5 min readSex5 min read
Mar 25Should We Become Swingers?That depends. What do you want out of it? What do you want to put into it? — This piece is being written for couples who are sorta kinda interested in getting involved in the swinger lifestyle, but not quite sure yet. It assumes that two people in a committed relationship have already started to talk with each other about the possibilities. …Swinger Lifestyle5 min readSwinger Lifestyle5 min read
Mar 11I Am a Better Person Because I am a SwingerMr. Jones Explains an Unanticipated Benefit of the Lifestyle — You can find many articles and blog posts that talk about the benefits of being in the swinger lifestyle. There are the obvious ones: really great, fun, exciting sex; communication enhancements with your partner; meeting new friends and experiencing a side of life that few get to experience. …Nonmonogamy4 min readNonmonogamy4 min read
Feb 25What If We Get Outed as Swingers?!Part 3 | How to Handle It Before…and After — This is Part 3 of our 3-part series about being found out as swingers when you’d rather not be. Part 1 | Why it’s a concern for many, and how it does/doesn’t happen. Part 2 | Our experience with being outed by someone else. …Sex4 min readSex4 min read
Feb 12What If We Get Outed as Swingers?!Part 2 | Our Experience & What We Learned From It — This is Part 2 of what will be a 3-part series about being found out as swingers when you’d rather not be. Part 1 | Why it’s a concern for many, and how it does/doesn’t happen. Part 2 | Our experience with being outed by someone else. …Swingers5 min readSwingers5 min read
Jan 15What If We Get Outed as Swingers?!Part 1 | Why it’s a Common Concern & How it Does/Does Not Tend to Happen — This is Part 1 of what will be a 3-part series about being found out as swingers when you’d rather not be. Part 1 | Why it’s a concern for many, and how it does/doesn’t happen. Part 2 | Our experience with being outed by someone else. …Swingers4 min readSwingers4 min read
Jan 8The Ins and Outs of Group PlayHow we evolved as swingers to participate in group sex occasionally. — OK, wait. “Group play” is just a polite term for “orgy,” right? If you know us at all, you know that we don’t get too caught up in terminology. We will leave the semantics and the group sex mathematics to others and keep referring to sex with more than 3–4…Swingers5 min readSwingers5 min read
Dec 27, 2022Swinger Couple Resolutions for 2023Some Suggestions for a Super Sexy New Year — Back in January of 2020, we published a blog post about swinger new year resolutions. And then…well, we all know how 2020 went. Time for a do over! We are firm believers in the power of exploring our sexuality together, as a couple. …Swingers4 min readSwingers4 min read
