PinnedMember-only6 Tips on Flirting as a CoupleFlirting in Tandem in the Swinger Lifestyle can be Tricky, but Fun! Whether it’s a lifestyle event, a house party, a social club, or a meet-up with another couple for dinner or drinks—figuring out how to flirt can be daunting to those new to the swinger lifestyle. If you’re anything…Swingers6 min read
Sep 18Member-onlySo, How’d You Two Get Started as Swingers?Why it’s fascinating to learn about other couples’ origin stories. Spend any amount of time in the swinger lifestyle, and you’ll notice that a frequent topic of conversation online, or at meet-and-greets, events, and parties is discussion of what brought a couple there. Not to that specific venue, per se…Ethical Non Monogamy4 min read
Sep 6Member-onlyWhat To Do When Your Play Partner Can’t Get HardMrs. Jones discusses male performance anxiety in the swinger lifestyle. We tout the lifestyle as a fun, sexy environment where we can meet new friends, have exciting erotic encounters, and live out some awesome fantasies. However, the reality is that we also sometimes find ourselves in stressful, high pressure situations…Swingers4 min read
Aug 21Member-onlyWe are NOT Swingers!When an email starts out that way, we know what’s coming next. Dear Mr. and Mrs. Jones, Even though we are NOT swingers, we really enjoy listening to each episode of your podcast. You know, you guys sound so normal—you seem a lot like us. We are not at all…Swingers4 min read
Aug 13Member-onlyJealousy in the Swinger LifestyleIn which Mr. Jones stares down the green-eyed monster. Being in what I consider one of the most secure relationships in the history of the world, I was taken by surprise after being ambushed by feelings of jealousy early in our lifestyle journey. I recall feeling confused, as if I…Swingers4 min read
Jul 31Member-onlyThe Age Range Barrier in SwingingHow We Determine if a Couple is Too Old or Too Young for Us I’ll never forget one time we, as newbies, received a message from a couple on a dating site. They were inviting us out for dinner and drinks. As we were reviewing their profile, everything looked really…Swingers3 min read
Jul 20Member-onlySocial Before SexualThe importance of connecting before connecting in the swinger lifestyle. If we reach out to them, they will assume we want to have sex with them. If we answer their message, they may take that as an indication that we’re all in. We’re not sure we’re in at all, yet. …Swingers4 min read
Jul 7Member-onlyHey! Don’t Take It Personally.Handling Rejection in the Swinger Lifestyle Based on emails we receive and our own experiences, two of the biggest fears new swingers have are (1) having to say “we’re not interested” to a couple, and (2) being told “we’re not interested” by another couple. Rejection isn’t fun, no matter which…Swingers4 min read
Jun 21Member-onlyWhat’s Love Got to Do With It?!Mrs. Jones Talks About the Role of Love in the Swinger Lifestyle My marriage is the most important relationship in my life. I spent decades working on my relationship with Mr. Jones, always putting the needs of our marriage first when considering life decisions. “But wait,” you say, “Being swingers…Nonmonogamy4 min read
Jun 11Member-onlyOur Thing May Not Be Your Thing“We may be one example, but we shouldn’t be a blueprint.” — Mrs. Jones We are swinger lifestyle podcasters who have been talking about and writing about the thing we got goin’ on since 2014. We’ve appeared as guests on other podcasts, talked on panels, held workshops, seminars & weekend…Sex4 min read
