May 7What to Wear on a Swinger DateMrs. Jones dishes the deets for women in the lifestyle. I was going through my closet the other day trying to find something to wear to dinner with a new couple we’d been talking online with but hadn’t met in person before. I really need to organize my closet better…Swingers4 min read
Apr 17What is Your Risk Appetite?Some things to consider before entering the swinger lifestyle. Risk. It may be a part of the reason some couples become attracted to the lifestyle. We’re not talking about risk to health or well-being. We’re talking about the thrill of doing something others might consider taboo (maybe we once did…Swingers5 min read
Apr 17That First Swinger Play ExperienceMr. Jones Recalls Just like that, it was over. I had spent days, weeks, months (maybe years?) fantasizing, researching, thinking, talking, planning and preparing for this much anticipated moment and then….POOF! Done. Over. What just happened? Bodies are everywhere. Breathing and moaning playing in surround sound. Feet, elbows, and hands…Swingers3 min read
Apr 35 Things You Need to Know about the Swinging LifestyleCurious about swinging? Thinking about entering the Lifestyle? We’re Mr. and Mrs. Jones. We’ve been married for a long time and have been swingers for the last 8 years. It has made our already strong marriage even stronger and more exciting. We talk about our journey from long-time monogamy to…Swingers6 min read
Mar 26Rethink Age as a Criterion for Making Swinger ConnectionsAge range is not the best or most essential basis for connecting with others. I’ll never forget the time when, as lifestyle newbies, we received a message from a younger couple on Kasidie, inviting us out for dinner and drinks. As we were reviewing their profile everything was looking great…Swingers3 min read
Mar 5Language(s) of the LifestyleHow We Convey Meaning in the Swinger Lifestyle Not too long ago, we found ourselves in an interesting discussion with some new friends in the pool at the Desire Pearl resort. …Nonmonogamy4 min read
Feb 27Being Swingers Requires TrustIt’s the bedrock of all we do in the swinger lifestyle. If you have listened to our podcast at all, we hope one thing is abundantly clear: We are crazy in love with each other, even after 30+ years. The basis of love, appreciation, and experience we built up as…Swingers5 min read
Feb 19Great Sexpectationsor, “How Swingers Set Ourselves Up for Disappointment” We know better, but we still do it sometimes. We can’t always help ourselves. Sometimes we don’t even realize we’re doing it until it’s too late. Coming into a new swinger date with specific preconceived expectations of how it will/must turn out…Swingers4 min read
Feb 13Finding Your Swinger Inner CircleAn Often Unexpected Benefit of the Swinger Lifestyle: True Friendship We talk a lot on our podcast about being “social sexy” in the swinger lifestyle. We’re aware that there are lots of ways to approach swinging, but our approach has always been to swing with people we feel connected to…Swinger3 min read
Jan 30The Joy of Soft Swap Play for SwingersFor new swingers or new situations, soft swap can hit the spot! For the first 18 months of our lifestyle journey, we were exclusively a soft swap couple. This means we played with others up to a point, but did not have penetrative sex with anyone other than each other…Swingers4 min read
