Pinned6 Tips on Flirting as a CoupleFlirting in Tandem in the Swinger Lifestyle can be Tricky, but Fun! Whether it’s a lifestyle event, a house party, a social club, or a meet-up with another couple for dinner or drinks—figuring out how to flirt can be daunting to those new to the swinger lifestyle. If you’re anything…Swingers6 min readSwingers6 min read
Jan 15What If We Get Outed as Swingers?!Part 1 | Why it’s a Common Concern & How it Does/Does Not Tend to Happen — This is Part 1 of what will be a 3-part series about being found out as swingers when you’d rather not be. Part 1 | Why it’s a concern for many, and how it does/doesn’t happen. Part 2 | Our experience with being outed by someone else. …Swingers4 min readSwingers4 min read
Jan 8The Ins and Outs of Group PlayHow we evolved as swingers to participate in group sex occasionally. — OK, wait. “Group play” is just a polite term for “orgy,” right? If you know us at all, you know that we don’t get too caught up in terminology. We will leave the semantics and the group sex mathematics to others and keep referring to sex with more than 3–4…Swingers5 min readSwingers5 min read
Dec 27, 2022Swinger Couple Resolutions for 2023Some Suggestions for a Super Sexy New Year — Back in January of 2020, we published a blog post about swinger new year resolutions. And then…well, we all know how 2020 went. Time for a do over! We are firm believers in the power of exploring our sexuality together, as a couple. Talking about sex and setting sex-life resolutions…Swingers4 min readSwingers4 min read
Dec 11, 2022Prioritizing UsIt’s What Allows Us to Enjoy the Swinger Lifestyle — Longtime listeners have heard us say it plenty of times before: The number one principle upon which our swinging is based is that we are beholden to no one but us. That could make us sound like real jerks. Prioritizing our relationship above all else as we invite other couples…Swingers4 min readSwingers4 min read
Nov 27, 2022Our Lifestyle Connection Deal Breakers, Part 2This is Part 2 of a two-part series. You can read Part 1 here. In our 101st podcast episode, we focused on things we consider to be deal breakers when we’re looking to make a swinger connection with another couple. You may or may not share our particular deal breakers…Swingers4 min readSwingers4 min read
Nov 13, 2022Merry Christmas, BabyIt’s Naughty Stocking Season 2022! — Longtime listeners of our podcast know that one of our cherished holiday traditions is exchanging naughty stockings with one another. We put a lot of time and thought into selecting sexy treats for one another and set aside one evening out of the holiday bustle when it can be just…Christmas2 min readChristmas2 min read
Nov 7, 2022How Often Do You Have Sex?Mrs. Jones shares some thoughts on quality vs quantity. — It is not unusual to hear the results of some nationwide survey saying that the average married couple has sex on average X times per week. Does that mean that if we don’t meet the quota of having sex two or three or four times per week that there is…Relationships3 min readRelationships3 min read
Oct 15, 2022Our Lifestyle Connection Deal Breakers, Part 1Our most recent podcast episode focused on things we consider to be deal breakers when we’re looking to make a swinger connection with another couple. You may or may not share our particular deal breakers, and you may have some others of your own. But we’ve figured out over the…Swingers5 min readSwingers5 min read
Oct 2, 2022When Swingers Pause & RegroupThe Importance of Self-Defining How We Approach the Lifestyle Some friends of ours wrote this and we want to share it with you: The Joneses, two of America’s most famous ambassadors for the lifestyle, are quick to say that non-monogamy isn’t for everyone. While We Gotta Thing serves as many couples’ introduction to the whats, whys, and hows of navigating entry into the world…Nonmonogamy6 min readNonmonogamy6 min read
