Some things to consider before entering the swinger lifestyle. — Some things to consider before entering the swinger lifestyle. Risk. It may be a part of the reason some couples become attracted to the lifestyle. We’re not talking about risk to health or well-being. We’re talking about the thrill of doing something others might consider taboo (maybe we once did…

Mr. Jones Recalls — Mr. Jones Recalls Just like that, it was over. I had spent days, weeks, months (maybe years?) fantasizing, researching, thinking, talking, planning and preparing for this much anticipated moment and then….POOF! Done. Over. What just happened? Bodies are everywhere. Breathing and moaning playing in surround sound. Feet, elbows, and hands…

Curious about swinging? Thinking about entering the Lifestyle? — Curious about swinging? Thinking about entering the Lifestyle? We’re Mr. and Mrs. Jones. We’ve been married for a long time and have been swingers for the last 8 years. It has made our already strong marriage even stronger and more exciting. We talk about our journey from long-time monogamy to…

Age range is not the best or most essential basis for connecting with others. — Age range is not the best or most essential basis for connecting with others. I’ll never forget the time when, as lifestyle newbies, we received a message from a younger couple on Kasidie, inviting us out for dinner and drinks. As we were reviewing their profile everything was looking great…

How We Convey Meaning in the Swinger Lifestyle — How We Convey Meaning in the Swinger Lifestyle Not too long ago, we found ourselves in an interesting discussion with some new friends in the pool at the Desire Pearl resort. We were talking about their recent introduction to the lifestyle and they mentioned that they noticed that the lifestyle…

It’s the bedrock of all we do in the swinger lifestyle. — It’s the bedrock of all we do in the swinger lifestyle. If you have listened to our podcast at all, we hope one thing is abundantly clear: We are crazy in love with each other, even after 30+ years. The basis of love, appreciation, and experience we built up as…

or, “How Swingers Set Ourselves Up for Disappointment” — or, “How Swingers Set Ourselves Up for Disappointment” We know better, but we still do it sometimes. We can’t always help ourselves. Sometimes we don’t even realize we’re doing it until it’s too late. Coming into a new swinger date with specific preconceived expectations of how it will/must turn out…

An Often Unexpected Benefit of the Swinger Lifestyle: True Friendship — An Often Unexpected Benefit of the Swinger Lifestyle: True Friendship We talk a lot on our podcast about being “social sexy” in the swinger lifestyle. We’re aware that there are lots of ways to approach swinging, but our approach has always been to swing with people we feel connected to…

For new swingers or new situations, soft swap can hit the spot! — For new swingers or new situations, soft swap can hit the spot! For the first 18 months of our lifestyle journey, we were exclusively a soft swap couple. This means we played with others up to a point, but did not have penetrative sex with anyone other than each other…